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Thursday, October 14, 2010

Child Parenting vs. Teen Parenting pt.2

are u smarter than a 5th grader...
Child Parenting vs. Teen parenting pt. 2.


It feels good as a parent to sit down with your child, and help them with their homework…
the first few years is great, watching your child put their first sentences together…however,
what happens when your child advances in school, and they bring home, homework that’s
above your comprehension because you left school, for what ever reason. What
you do when your child needs help with math, or reading and sits there frustrated because they do not understand. 
In one scenario, the child can become discouraged, and maybe even drop out
of school in the near future, in which we see too many times…in another scenario, the child can excel, overcome the odds, become college grads, and do great things with their lives.
The question I pose is;
Would your child resent you if you can’t help them with their homework when they ask for help?

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Child Parenting vs. Teen Parenting pt.5

Child parenting vs. Teen Parenting pt.5…Peer Pressure


Are we as parents handling teenage peer pressure efficiently…
what I mean is, are we communicating with our teens enough
When it comes to the pressure our kids are faceing, when they
 wanna be part of something, or some group.
It seems like we’re losing touch with our communication with our
 teenagers, either we make ourselves too busy with work, or we
Pass it off as “growing pains” and say ; “they’ll get through this”.
At the end of the day, they still need us… whether they want to
 admit it or not, we are the first line of defense when it comes to our children.
But what do you really tell your children, when it comes to dealing with drinking,
 drugs, or just hanging out with some un-savory Characters?  
How do we address a depressed teen that feels outcast by their peers?
What are the warning signs of OUR child or teen , when they are contemplating suicide?
I emphasize our because a lot of parents are in denial their child would be a part of any of that.
I personally know a parent that made that mistake with her twelve year old daughter…
shes dead now from committing suicide.